Pre-made soups -100 Meals You Never Thought You Would Eat Pureed - Recipes for Head and Neck Cancer patients

Ok, it’s time to back up a step and talk about pureed meals for those survivors who cannot eat more than a few spoonfuls.  So most pre-made soups may not be in the top 100 meals you never thought you would eat pureed, but some of them like pureed clam chowder, would make the list.  These recipes are directed at the care-givers, because the hardest part about being a caregiver is trying in vain to get a loved one to eat.

Most of the recipes, I’m writing about, make 3-6 cups of food, and require mixing in additional ingredients.  However, there is a whole group of survivors that have to eat every two hours, and you need something on hand that is ready to go, because if they get a cup of food down their throat – it is a good day.

When I was first going through radiation treatment in 2010, I was lucky to get down a 1/2 cup of pureed soup down my throat every 2 hours.  It was not a happy time for my caregivers.

This summer, I was one of them, again.  I was with my family on vacation, and it was the nadir week for my radiation recovery.  Nadir week happens about 3-4 weeks after the last radiation treatment.  You are losing weight rapidly because your body is in overdrive to repair the radiation damage, and you have absolutely no appetite to eat anything.  Unless someone is on top of it, you could go for days without eating.  

There is a pink goo called “lidocaine magic mouthwash” which is a mixture of lidocaine, Maalox, and Benadryl.  One spoonful of this, and your mouth and throat are numb for 15 minutes.  The goal is to get as much food down the throat before the pain comes back. 

Nearly any soup with chunks in it can be pureed down to a drinkable form.  Some of my favorites include:

Minestone

Clam Chowder

Lobster Bisque

Creamy of Mushroom, chicken, potato

Broccoli and cheddar

Split pea

Chicken and rice soup
Chicken Noodle

I usually had three or four in the refrigerator at a time.  Different times called for different soups.  My son said that living with a cancer patient was like living with a pet bear, you didn’t know in what mood they were going to wake up.  One minute tomato based soups are fine, the next minute not.  Clam chowder was great for two meals, now the bear can’t stand the smell of it.

WARM TO HOT
The key to soup is small amounts swapped out regularly to keep it warm to hot.  I was usually given a half cup of soup, and then it was swapped out for a warm cup every fifteen to thirty minutes - regardless of how much and drank, and with no comment.  Keeping a caregivers mouth shut is hard to do, because you care so much.  As as a mean and ugly survivor, I can tell you that anything you say will be taken in the worse way possible.  Save all comments until you take way the soup for the final time.

SIPPING VS. CHUGGING

CONTAINER CHOICES

I don’t recommend buying “canned soups” for the survivor who can’t eat much, it will break your heart- too much mixing and prepping.  Instead, buy one of two package styles boxed soups, or plastic resealable pint containers.

BOXED SOUPS

Most grocery stores carry at least one brand of boxed soup.   Typically, they are the creamy butternut squash, carrot puree, or split pea variety.  The beauty of these soups is that you can pour out as little as you need, and then seal the container.  The box soups are always ready and waiting, and only need about one minute to prep.  Secondarily, you can pour, heat, and serve.  I found these very comforting in the evening and at night.  Oh yes I said at night.  When I was at my nadir, I would wake up in the middle of the night to take my meds, and I could easily pour myself a cup of soup to swallow my pills, instead of a glass of water which had no calories.

With my first cancer, I tried to sip soup off a spoon.  With my second cancer, I realized if I can just chug the soup I can get the food down the throat.  I recommend making the soup thin enough to drink. Remember the goal is to get as much food down the throat.

PLASTIC RESEALABLE PINT CONTAINERS

These are usually the large chunk soups like chicken soup, clam chowder, or minestrone.  Many grocery stores now have a “made in-store” soup area.  Many restaurant chains also provide their soups for sale in grocery stores and wholesale clubs - personally, I love the Legal Seafood and Panera brands. 

For these soups, I recommend pouring the entire soup into the blender, giving the soup a good puree, and then putting it back into the original container.  When it comes time to serve the soup, water them down to the correct thickness by just whisking them in a cup.

NEIGHBOR’S SOUPS

Between friends and neighbors, I had a steady supply of soups.  For those friends and family who want to help and are not sure how – soup is the way to go.  Everyone makes at least one great soup.   From big pots of chicken and rice, to traditional chicken matzo ball soup, to proportioned frozen soups my friend, Sue Broderick, made me. 

Sue’s minestrone soup was the first soup I used for experiments.  Turns out you can hide a lot of healthy things in pureed minestrone – leafy greens, pea protein, sausage, even turmeric.  Although I can’t have tomato based soups that often.  This is still a go-to soup for me.

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2010 First round of Chemo and Radiation

Example of a tetra boxed soup

My Second Recipe -Frank and Beans (PICNIC) -100 Meals You Never Thought You Would Eat Pureed - Recipes for Head and Neck Cancer patients

My second recipe for the new cookbook - Franks and Beans

Over the summer, one of the scariest things for people who need to eat pureed food, is that picnic and summer outing which can be a nightmare.  Nothing looks puree-friendly.  I went to an outing in New Hampshire at my friend, Sue Alexander’s place.  She welcomed me with opened arms, and the first thing out of her mouth was – “I have a blender in the kitchen for you.”  YIPPPPPEEEEE.

While I was there, I also experimented with other classics like pasta salad, potato salad, and Chips and cheese sauce.  Pasta salad purees well, but can be rather neutral on the “satisfying the soul meter”.  I can drink a couple of cups of frank and beans, but more than a cup of pasta salad is more than enough.

If you are having an all-day event, potato salad is the perfect dish to add to the meal.  Potato salad has the same level of enjoyment as Frank and Beans, but it lacks protein and is a little harder to use to hide other healthy ingredients.  Remember that potatoes soak up a lot of water.

The most surprising food of the day was corn chips and cheese dip.  No they weren’t pureed.  The chips were the extra-large chips, so I could smother a corner with cheese and take a small bite.  I don’t have an issue with swallowing which allowed me to take small bites – about ten bites per chip.  YUM – lots of cheese with a little bit of corn chip.  I recommend keeping a beverage on hand in case a sharp piece of chip gets stuck in the mouth or throat.  Three corn chips was quite an adventure in eating.  It might have taken at hour but was well worth it.

RECIPE

1 hot dog

1 medium can of baked beans

Shot of yellow mustard

2 tablespoons molasses

1 can of water (or more)

Puree until smooth

I love this recipe.  The nice thing is there is a huge variety of “Franks” – beef, pork, chicken, turkey, tofu, nitrate-free . . .  Most of the issues with turkey dogs and tofu dogs is texture – pureeing solves this.  I love my beef dogs roasted on the grill so there is a nice smoky flavor.  I cook up an entire package and keep the rest chilled in the refrigerator.   The color and the aroma are pure summer-time. 

Beans also come in many shape and sizes too.  I have discovered that I cannot eat vegetarian baked beans – not that they taste bad, but my daughter will eat them all before I have a chance to get any. So now I buy both vegetarian and pork beans.  (Update Feb. 22, 2017 - I have to hide the vegetarian beans so my daughter will not eat them as soon as they come home.)

This is one of the best recipes for hiding healthy extra ingredients like pea protein powder.  Green leafy vegetables make a great add-in too.  You will be surprised how well turmeric goes with frank and beans.

WARNING

The two big issues with this recipe are the molasses and yellow mustard.  Yellow mustard, does give a nice aroma, but can have more of a “bite” than you might expect.  Molasses has the “sugar” issue, but I am a fan of molasses.  Molasses can also overwhelm the favor.  Yes, I have added to much molasses, but just once.  

Update: A member of my support group told me he tried the recipe without the mustard, after three bites, his mouth was on fire.  He thinks it was the hot dog.

Summer time Picnic

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First Recipe - Moving from Stomach Peg Original Soup ™ to 100 Meals You Never Thought You Would Eat Pureed - Recipes for Head and Neck Cancer patients

Four years ago, I had neck cancer and I had a stomach peg.  My wife, Randi, and I created Stomach Peg Original Soup™ -SPOS.  This year, I discovered I had Adenoid Cystic Carcinoma (ACC).  I opted to not have a stomach peg, but I still needed to make sure I got my nutrition.

My jaw muscle on the treatment side tightened to the point where I could barely chew.  Everything I “ate” had to be pureed.  After several months of enduring cold pureed food, I joined a support group for head and neck cancer patients at Emerson Hospital.  Turns out the pureed food issue is common among head and neck survivors. 

We decided that the internet is full of cold fruit smoothies; tasteless veggie shakes; and creamy, milky, yummy, dairy treatment.  What we craved are hot meals that everyone else at the dining room table was eating.  Most of us have been shunned from dinner, because we can’t eat what everyone else is eating.  We want to join in on mealtime again. We wished we could convert normal meals into something for us.  We joked that she should create a “recipe” book.  I went home that night and decided it needed to get done.

So, here I am with the first blog on "100 Meals You Never Thought You Would Eat Pureed". 

On August 12th I posted on FaceBook my first successful recipe:

100 MEALS PUREED

my first recipe for the new cookbook - Steak and Potatoes

4 oz. cooked steak

1 cooked potato

8 oz. beef stock

some chive

two scoops sour cream

3 pats of butter (or more)

dash of steak sauce

enough water to puree (about 2-3 cups) thickness is a personal preference

It is still my favorite dinner.

But let’s back up and talk about what this book is about and not about.

QUALIFICATIONS:

1)            Smells good

2)            Taste good

3)            As a good after taste

Those are the three criteria.  Not much we can do about texture . . . it’s pureed.  Although, I try to avoid “Grey Foods”, sometimes people eat grey foods. Disney is the only place where I suggest trying the grey stuff - It's delicious.

SMELLS GOOD

As Head and Neck Survivors, the one thing that works really well is our sense of smell.  We want to smell the food coming from the kitchen. Many of us are on medications that make us lose our appetite.  The goal of a great meal is that the aroma draws us in so we want to eat again.

TASTE GOOD

This is the trickiest of all the issues.  Things that taste good can also burn our mouths.  Many of us have a number of ingredients that cannot be consumed because it is either too spicy; burns the mouth; conflicts with medications taken, or gets stuck in the mouth.  If you are a caregiver, this is the hardest lesson to learn, because it is usually done my trial and error. 

Best example is bananas.  Most people do not realize that for radiation cancer patients, the simple banana turns into a burning machine.  My wife, Randi makes me a wonderful peanut butter smoothie.  One time, she accidentally added a banana as she forgot that bananas burn my mouth like a Thai pepper.

Almost every recipe will ask you to add a “DASH” of something to add a pop of flavor.   Remember to check to see if it has a hidden danger.  The Steak and Potato recipe ask for a “DASH of Steak Sauce”, which typically contains vinegar.  Vinegar might burn, but it also gives the recipe the “pop” of aroma.

NUTRITION

I know my favorite Nutritionist, Emily Biever, is going to cry reading this part.  The recipes are not about nutrition . . . per se.  They are not designed to be well balanced.  They are designed to nourish the soul.  The recipes are designed to get enough calories down the throat with a maximum amount of “joy”.

The biggest piece of nutrition that these meals contain is the fact that Head and Neck survivors will consume them because they are familiar to them.  Emily would agree getting enough calories in the body is JOB NUMBER 1; getting enough protein is JOB number 2; getting enough proper fat is JOB NUMBER 3; and getting vitamins, chlorophylls, and veggies is JOB NUMBER 4.  There are a ton of recipes that cover JOB 4.

However, once we get the Survivor eating, it is not too hard to sneak in additional ingredients.  As an example, Panera Bread makes a great Broccoli Cheddar soup.  I will take the soup (which you can buy in grocery stores) home, puree it, and add an avocado.  The avocado hides well in the broccoli and cheddar flavors.

GOT TO HAVE STARCH
The problem with pureed meats is that they sink to the bottom.  Starch helps hold the meat in suspension and makes the small pieces easier to swallow.
The recipes are designed to be "meals in a bowl" instead of a "dish in a bowl".  More many cancer patients, it's hard enough eating one item,  it would be heartbreaking to have three unfinished bowls in front of them.  The goal is to have one complete meal cleverly combined into one bowl.

HOW PUREED IS PUREED

This will depend on the survivor.  Some need food perfectly smooth; others can have small lumps in their dish.

HOW HOT SHOULD IT BE SERVED

This depends on the survivor.  Some days I want to sip the food hotter, than those days when I want to “CHUG” the food.  Take comfort that this will be a trial by error, but it is all done with love.

SERVING SIZE

Most of the dishes will make about three cups of food, or about a half a blender.  You need plenty of room in the blender to mix the food, and enough food that the survivor can ask for seconds.

So back to the first recipe. . .

Steak and Potatoes

4 oz. cooked steak (pot roast works well)

1 cooked potato

8 oz. beef stock

some chive

two scoops sour cream

3 pats of butter (or more)

dash of steak sauce

enough water to puree (about 2-3 cups) thickness is a personal preference

The ingredients are designed to be standard items that you would have on hand for steak and potato night.  If you think about it - it is really beef stew puree.  This is literally a dump the ingredients in the blender and puree recipe.  When blending the ingredient you will need to monitor how much water you are adding.  It is hard to judge how much water the potato is going to need, as different potatoes are different sizes and have “dried out in the pantry” differently. 

This recipe is a basic design, so if you have special dietary requirements, be sure to modify as needed. For example, I know a number of people with dairy restrictions.  I have tried the recipe with and without sour cream and butter – still taste great.

BLENDERS

I have two blenders at home a Vitamix 500 and a Waring Model 51BL26.   The Vitamix has a “SOUP” setting that will puree the food right down to a liquefied drink.  The Waring even after 10 minutes will puree the food down to having very small but perceptible pulp.  If you are a friend of someone going through head or neck cancer I recommend joining with friends and purchase the survivor a Vitamix.  They are not cheap; however, they are a Godsend for the patient and the caregiver.

9/14 - JUST FOUND THIS GUIDE
http://www.mskcc.org/cancer-care/patient-education/resources/eating-guide-pureed-and-mechanical-soft-diets

Celebrating another birthday with friends

The Art of Chilled SPOS or is it Vegetable Juice

Yes, I’m still alive and doing well. It’s been a year since my last blog, and it’s time to report on options of SPOS and learning to live as a person with a History of Cancer. I don’t think of myself as a survivor of Cancer, I feel more like a “Survivor of Cancer Treatment”.

Two years ago, I was given two choices 1) disfigurement by toxic drugs and radiation or 2) Death. . . So when people say we have treatment for cancer, I smile politely instead of ripping their head off. My disfigurement is minor. All tongue cancer treatment survivors have a shriveled face; I have additional alopecia in the back of my head. But the big one is my salivary gland have been reduced to the point where I have constant dry mouth. Coffee and sugary soda acerbates the problem. No I’m not so crazy as to give up coffee, I just live with the consequences. Most people are polite and don’t say anything when I’m laboring while talking with dry mouth, my wife simply says – “Honey go get a drink of water.”

When I wake in the morning I can’t speak, my mouth is so dry. I can not eat food without a drink. Those who eat frequently with me know that if they ask me a question while we are eating, it might take up to a minute for me to clear my mouth enough to answer the question. Bless them for their patience.

Which bring us to the reason for this blog- what options do I have to drink. Typically I have milk or soy milk; occasionally, I’ll have Almond or rice milk. The other day I found Columbia Gorge Organic Pure Pressed Just Greens at the supermarket – FABULOUS STUFF. Most of the vegetable juice have too much tomato (to much acid for my stomach) or too fruit juice (heavy sugar intake). They only have it available in 16 oz bottles, which means it is price prohibitive to drink daily.

Then it dawned on me Chilled SPOS. It is basically veggie juice. As a Survivor of Cancer Treatment, I needed to change my food habits to eating foods which are anti-cancer foods. Chilled SPOS can give me that advantage.

Some of my favorite anti-cancer foods are blueberries, blackberries, turmeric, cinnamon, mushrooms, and spinach. All of these get fixed at some point into my three daily meals . . . yes cinnamon rolls are a great way to get cinnamon. Cheerios with cinnamon dusted on top count too.

With Vermont promoting Kale, I’m on a big kale kick and add more kale to all my meals. Making a batch of SPOS and keeping it in the refrigerator, is easy enough to do.



So now that summer is up on us, turn SPOS into a summer time treat. Comment back if you come up with a Chilled SPOS recipe that is your favorite.

First haircut after Cancer Treatment

Stomach Peg Original Soup ™ All that Middle Stuff

Stomach Peg Original Soup ™ All that Middle Stuff

Ok I skipped over all that stuff in the middle that isn’t much fun, because your doctor will spend a lot of time talking about all that “STUFF”. A friend of mine is about to start radiation for throat cancer and asked me a whole lot of questions about that middle stuff, so I figure I get cover my experiences.

SIDE-EFFECT TIME DELAY- The first three weeks of radiation are pretty easy in comparison with the next three months. By the time the fourth week comes up you are thinking “OK this isn’t so bad I can tolerate this.” The treatment and the side effects happen about five weeks apart. At the fourth week you start feeling tired and your throat starts to hurt. You may be on steroids which has it’s own set of side-effects – you will get very emotional. You will probably yap at the kids for not cleaning their rooms, and cry at sappy movies. I think my children really enjoyed seeing me cry at Christmas jewelry commercials. (my daughter just read this and agrees).

By the time you finish the radiation, you will start to think this isn’t very bad- don’t worry it gets worse(1). At the end of radiation, I was thinking about going back to work, my doctor and my wife looked at me like I was out of my mind – they were right I was out of my mind. It was either the steroids or the Oxycodone talking . . . I finished treatment mid-September and wasn’t back at work until mid-November. The truth? I wasn’t full functioning at work until January. Feeling better is just as slow a process as feeling tired.

PAIN- There I said it. Actually there wasn’t much pain. I am at Dana Farber and they were very conscience about managing pain. I thought I was taking a lot of pain med, but they assured me that I was very low or the scale of the amount of pain meds I was taking. My friend told me that the Oxycodone he was on got him a little high, it didn’t affect me that way at all. The liquid was great because I could just pour it down the Stomach peg. I would say I was in a constant state of discomfort, but not pain.

The three main areas of pain were general body ache, throat is on fire when you swallow, and burn when you brush your teeth. I used a Lidocaine mouth rinse before eating and brushing my teeth that really numbed up the whole mouth. I also recommend getting a little kids toothbrush with a smaller bristle head because the brush is softer and you are able to brush teeth when you are unable to open your mouth very much. Personally I used a Whinny the Pooh toothbrush

WEIGHT LOST – It’s going to happen. Your body will take a toll on losing weight. It’s amazing how much energy it takes to lose weight. I lost about 2.5 pounds every week for about 4 months. Yes that is about 40-50 pounds. ( 6 months after getting my Stomach Peg out, I still weigh 175 pounds. Which is why getting as much food as possible into your belly is important.

TIREDNESS – I didn’t want to get out of bed, but I did because I had to put food in my belly at 6:30AM. Then I moved to my comfy chair for my “cans and soups” This became standard operating procedure for the rest of the day, until my son came home from school, where he would try to get me to move around.

PURPOSE OF LIFE – The best and worst thing I did was coach 5th and 6th grade girl’s soccer. It gave me a great purpose to life; however, my coaching skills were well tested. I told you about the steroid issue of high and low emotions. These came out on the soccer sidelines. The big thing I learned is that my girls played soccer for the love of the game. Thank goodness because we weren’t an offense threat.

Love always
Jeff Scott Hoyland

(1) When you are functioning at 25% capacity you don’t notice sliding to 10%. But when you go from 10% to 20 % your think you are on top of the world when you aren’t.

My Friend TOny's wellness visit during the summer of Chemo

Stomach Peg Original Soup ™ Weaning off the Peg

Stomach Peg Original Soup ™ Weaning off the Peg

Weaning yourself off the Stomach Peg is an important part of the process. Your doctor will tell you something like “YOU NEED TO MAINTAIN YOUR BODY WEIGHT FOR THREE WEEKS WITHOUT USING THE STOMACH PEG, BEFORE WE WILL TAKE THE PEG OUT.”
This process starts about two months before. I wish I was one of the lucky people who could just eat ice cream to put on the weight, but alas I could not.; to much dairy gave me heart burn, and the sugar in the ice cream made me cough (several months after the peg was removed, ice cream still makes me cough).
I still couldn’t eat a big meal, but I could eat four medium meals. This is the only point in your life when your doctor will proscribe that you should eat more and put on weight. GO WITH IT!! At work, I liked watered down oatmeal for my ten o’clock meal. By this time my friends and co-workers were saying I looked great. But really your at about 50%, which is vastly better than running at 10%. They will live vicariously through you. Remember you don’t have to worry about “FAT FREE”.

My successful tricks-

Soy milk with whey powder-
Especially the vanilla favor was a favorite breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I used it to wash down even hard to eat stuff like breads and crackers.

Cucumber and Spinach Shakes –
A friend recommended this because the cucumber and spinach help fight “acid stomach”.

Big Bowl of Soup Shakes-
My wife would make me a bowl of regular soup. I would eat as much as I could (at the beginning it might have been as little as three spoonfuls). Then blend the rest and drink as a warm shake. This may seem odd, but the time you get to this point, everything is better as a shake. Split Pea Shake! Chowder Shake! Minestrone Shake!

Butter-
Oh butter tastes great on everything – noodles, oatmeal, eggs, toast (if you can), cream soup (Loved Chowders), noodles (yes buttered noodles need to be mentioned twice), etc.

Cheese –
For some reason milk and I disagreed but cheese and I got along fine. Especially, soft cheeses like brie. My friend knew I couldn’t have beer, so he got me beer flavored cheese like Porter Cheese, and Chimay Cheese.

Peanut Butter and Celery-
I was surprised that this worked. There is enough juice in the celery to melt the peanut butter that it was easy to swallow.

Receiving Chemo and fluids at Dana Farber

Stomach Peg Original Soup ™ SPOS THE CARE GIVER TOP 5 SUGGESTIONS

Stomach Peg Original Soup ™ SPOS THE CARE GIVER TOP 5 SUGGESTIONS

Do you want something to eat?
NO!
How about some soup?
NO!
You need to have something, how about something to drink?
NO!
I can make you a smoothie?
NO!
What can I make you?
NOTHING! I’m cold and Tired!
YOU CAN’T JUST HAVE CANS ALL DAY . . .
Sound familiar?

My son, Alec, put it best: living with a dad with cancer was like living with a pet bear. You feed it. You scratch its fur. Usually, it’s hunched over and hibernating, but you have to be careful because it will lash out and rip your head off. I nearly laughed my head off because of how on point this statement was.

As a Care Giver, I cry for you, because I know I was a bear. You watch your loved one in pain and there is not much you can do – especially if we are tired and grumpy.

On the food side, here are some suggestions:

1) JUST DO IT. We are tired, cold, and generally miserable that there is little that will comfort us by the words that you say. Our body is busy consuming itself making us lose 2-5 pounds a week. If you think we need food – just make the food and set it next to us. If you think we need drink – just make it and set it next to us. If you think we need a blanket – just bring over the blanket. Don’t ask us questions because it is easy to say NO! In fact it is easier to say no multiple times. I know you want to check in and see how we are doing, but once we start the downward spiral of saying “NO!” back off and just do it. Every time my wife, Randi, set down a bowl, or glass, or cup she was saying “I LOVE YOU”.

2) LET THEM EAT WHERE THEY ARE. When you are miserable the last thing you want to do is go to the kitchen table and eat next to nothing, proving you are ill with a cancer that you never asked for in the first place. I had a favorite easy chair in front of the TV which I would curl up on with my comfy blanket and watch my favorite shows – ELLEN and American Chopper (the first couple of seasons). Randi, my wife, finally let me have a stool which I used as a table. It held my water glass, my soy milk glass (easiest thing for me to drink) and a plate for food. A typical meal took me about 2 hours to eat. There was no way I was going to sit at a dining room table for two hours. The idea is to get nutrients in the body, and exercise the throat. If it takes two hours- it take two hours. Que Sera, Sera!! Trust me this is the hardest thing to do.

3) MAKE SMALL PORTIONS. There were times when my Nutritionist, Stephanie Myers, was happy if I had two spoonfuls. So put 4 portions in the bowl/plate. It looks like next to nothing. And then you will add double to that. WHOA! When the patient looks at the bowl they will turn away because they know they will never finish it. Instead, put out the small amount in a small bowl and then in about a half hour come back and replace the bowl with a new bowl of food. NO COMMENT NEEDED. There are certain foods perfect for this - especially scrambled eggs. Find the comfort food that will go down well.

4) DON’T BE TOO CREATIVE/ DON’T TELL US WHAT IS IN IT. My wife made smoothies all the time, because it was one of the few things I could consume orally. If is sounded to exotic and not comfort food – I would be the bear and not want to try it. So she would just make it and set it next to me and tell me the flavor – VANILLA. I’m sure she added turmeric, soy powder, or something else that was good for me. She read all these books about anti-cancer foods – trust me when you can get only two spoonfuls down the throat the last thing you want to hear about is anti-cancer foods. OH and I do add turmeric to my foods now – especially Chili

5) LITTLE WARMER THAN ROOM TEMPERATURE – Remember, we got the Stomach Peg because our throat is sore. SPOS can be drunk at room temp. SMOOTHIES are great at room temp. SOUPS should be a little warmer room temp. Eggs should be a little warmer room temp. Remember we are big babies – BIG FUSSY BABIES – BIG FUSSY CRY BABIES. We like our food at baby milk bottle temperature.

You never thought you would be an animal trainer, and can’t hurry cancer treatment. One of my favorite quotes, “THIS TOO WILL COME TO PASS.” God Bless you

Always,
Jeff Scott Hoyland

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My Caregivers, keeping me company at Dana Farber